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the flags were red. i was colorblind.

the flags were red. i was colorblind.

$30.00 USD
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In hindsight, it was all there.

She explained away inconsistencies, confused anxiety with chemistry, and kept choosing potential over patterns. Love bombing looked like love. Future faking looked like plans. The red flags were always there — she just couldn't see them yet.

She sees clearly now.

A meaningful gift for:

  • For the woman who recognized the red flags only after she got out
  • For narcissistic abuse survivors who trusted the wrong person and finally understand why
  • For anyone whose intuition was right the entire time

Product Details:

  • Comfort Colors 1717 garment-dyed shirt
  • 100% ring-spun cotton, heavyweight 6.1 oz
  • Relaxed unisex fit, tubular knit
  • Soft broken-in feel
  • Available S–4XL

Care: Machine wash cold, tumble dry low, do not bleach.

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life after ours

If this shirt said something you’ve been trying to say for a while, you’re in the right place. You found the shirt — the story that goes with it is here.

Life After Ours is the journal for women who finally have words for what happened to them. Stories about narcissistic abuse recovery, trauma bonds, gaslighting, heartbreak, divorce, and healing after toxic relationships. For women rebuilding after emotional abuse, navigating co-parenting after divorce, and holding themselves to higher standards than they were shown. For women who are done explaining themselves.

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