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hurt isn't love

hurt isn't love

$30.00 USD
$30.00 USD
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It was never supposed to feel that hard.

She normalized anxiety, confusion, inconsistency, and emotional pain because she thought loving someone meant enduring whatever came with them. Walking on eggshells became familiar. Intermittent reinforcement felt like passion.

Love feels calmer than that.

A meaningful gift for:

  • For the woman who confused chronic pain with deep love
  • For anyone healing from emotional abuse who needed to hear this plainly
  • For women learning what love is actually supposed to feel like

Product Details:

  • Comfort Colors 1717 garment-dyed shirt
  • 100% ring-spun cotton, heavyweight 6.1 oz
  • Relaxed unisex fit, tubular knit
  • Soft broken-in feel
  • Available S–4XL

Care: Machine wash cold, tumble dry low, do not bleach.

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life after ours

If this shirt said something you’ve been trying to say for a while, you’re in the right place. You found the shirt — the story that goes with it is here.

Life After Ours is the journal for women who finally have words for what happened to them. Stories about narcissistic abuse recovery, trauma bonds, gaslighting, heartbreak, divorce, and healing after toxic relationships. For women rebuilding after emotional abuse, navigating co-parenting after divorce, and holding themselves to higher standards than they were shown. For women who are done explaining themselves.

get the whole story