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Grieving Someone Who Never Really Existed

Grieving Someone Who Never Really Existed

$30.00 USD
$30.00 USD
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That kind of grief is hard to explain.

This one is for the women mourning the version of someone they loved, defended, waited for, and believed in before realizing the person they were grieving mostly existed in potential and projection.

The hardest part was admitting what she was actually mourning.

A meaningful gift for:

  • For the woman grieving someone who turned out to be mostly projection
  • For anyone processing the loss of a relationship they thought they had
  • For narcissistic abuse survivors mourning the person they believed in

Product Details:

  • Comfort Colors 1717 garment-dyed shirt
  • 100% ring-spun cotton, heavyweight 6.1 oz
  • Relaxed unisex fit, tubular knit
  • Soft broken-in feel
  • Available S–4XL

Care: Machine wash cold, tumble dry low, do not bleach.

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life after ours

If this shirt said something you’ve been trying to say for a while, you’re in the right place. You found the shirt — the story that goes with it is here.

Life After Ours is the journal for women who finally have words for what happened to them. Stories about narcissistic abuse recovery, trauma bonds, gaslighting, heartbreak, divorce, and healing after toxic relationships. For women rebuilding after emotional abuse, navigating co-parenting after divorce, and holding themselves to higher standards than they were shown. For women who are done explaining themselves.

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